Polite Occasions

Bespoke private events, from intimate gatherings, to cocktail parties and formal events.

From the team behind:

Polite Society

and

The Bellwether.

We would be honored to help host your next special occasion!

Nestled in the heart of St. Louis’ historic Lafayette Square, Be Polite Occasions offers a collection of stylish, inviting spaces perfect for life’s most memorable gatherings. Being a venture of Polite Society and The Bellwether, we bring culinary excellence and heartfelt hospitality to your private events. 

Our mission is simple: to provide our neighbors, friends, and families with a warm environment of thoughtful service, exceptional food, drink, and company. 

From intimate dinners to grand celebrations, our venues blend timeless charm with modern elegance. Whether you’re planning a cocktail party, corporate event, rehearsal dinner, or small wedding, our exceptional culinary team and thoughtful service ensure every occasion feels both refined and welcoming!

The Reference Room

The Drawing Room

Bellwether Hall

Tell us a bit about what you have in mind?